Get that lawyer, and fight it out. Make sure that lawyer is good with firearm law. I wish that you'd done that when Marc first recommended it; might have avoided the charges, to begin with.
In the meantime, stop posting on the topic, here or anywhere else. In fact, while you are dealing with this, I'd be extremely cautious of what you post on any topic, in a public forum. While we are interested in your case, it's best to go silent until the situation is resolved. Once resolved, of course, we certainly want to know what happened.
On a personal note, your family sounds... a little busy-bodyish, I guess. They seem to be causing you some undue stress and hardship. Perhaps you might want to consider cutting them out, for a bit. Obviously, I don't know the background, but you've described a relationship that strikes me as unhealthy, obsessive, and stalkerish, on their part. Seems to me that they may be part of the problem, even if they do mean well.
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