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I actually am taking the time to write this out because the fact my lunch was late because the short order cook would rather get the "pretty girls" orders taken care of FIRST, even though they were AFTER me, and ordered the SAME thing!

I started being nice to the UGLY girls, and ignoring the pretty ones.

WOW! What a dramatic change in just an hour! the Ugly girls are being nice, and friendly, and SO ARE THE PRETTY GIRLS!?!?

Dunno. But I wanted to advise everyone, BE NICE TO UGLY GIRLS! They deserve it! The Pretty Ones get ENOUGH attention! There ya' go.

I always make a point to be nice to ugly girls, and all people who actually do something. My life goes much easier that way.

For example, there are several parking guards at a private lot that I used to belong to, but because I rarely go there anymore, I no longer belong to it. I always made the time to ask how everyone's day was going and remember their names while I was there. Remembering what was discussed previously also helps. Now, whenever I go there, they just tell me to go park for free. Saves me a few minutes every time I go, because the public lots are MUCH further away from the buildings I must go to.

Make sure you treat everyone who does something in real life (not me, I push paper), and life definitely goes easier.

I've never come across an ugly girl. They're all pretty.

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The ugly girls I see are all agenda driven NOW types.

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"I started being nice to the UGLY girls, and ignoring the pretty ones.

WOW! What a dramatic change in just an hour! the Ugly girls are being nice, and friendly, and SO ARE THE PRETTY GIRLS!?!?

Dunno. But I wanted to advise everyone, BE NICE TO UGLY GIRLS! They deserve it! The Pretty Ones get ENOUGH attention! There ya' go."

That phenomenon you experienced is called using "social proof". You were nice to the ugly girls, and since when pretty girls are around, they usually dont get the kind of attention you showed them, they started to fawn over you. The pretty girls saw that you had some other girls (pretty or not) hanging around... and this created the "social proof" that you were different from other guys, the ugly girls are unintentionally vetting you for the pretty ones. Thus, the pretty girls responded.

Plus, being nice to so-called "ugly" girls is usually just plain chivalrous and gentlemanly. You might find yourself very attracted to an "ugly" one if her personality is one where you laugh a lot, and/or shes a helluva shot.

I'm always nice to ALL ugly people.

After all, I'm one of them.

I quote "Roadhouse"

"Son, never marry an ugly woman. It just takes all the fight outta ya'." -Red

I'm POLITE to everyone, it's a business thing, but being EXTRA nice to "ugly" girls makes them happy. The explanation makes PERFECT sense Safari Dave!

ShotgunBlast wrote:I've never come across an ugly girl. They're all pretty.

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For the most part, but I have to admit that no matter how much I want to think that, I've an extremely small number of truly ugly girls.

I also notice that personality and intelligence can influence the aesthetic rating for me too.

Hey! "The Woman" is "cute", but it's her personality that won me over... She's "country", and actually kinda fiesty. I like a woman with some "fight" in her.

I could not fault you for that. I like a woman who stands up for themselves, also!

dorminWS wrote:I'm always nice to ALL ugly people.

After all, I'm one of them.

+1

I always say what do I care what I look like? I don't have to look in the mirror!

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I try to be Nice to ALL people.....BUT I did have an UGLY girl be really nice to Me !!!

Did I just see Fonzie ride a motorcycle over a large tank of water?

I have been extra nice to a "aesthetically challenged" girl at work... She made me coffee this morning. Another grabbed my paperwork off the printer, and even made me an envelope...

Holy crap... I could be King of the "Great Personalities'!

In truth, most of the "ugly" girls I have met in my life were supermodel hot... but their were either just so danged narcissistic, or cruel... just made them unattractive.

The "aesthetically challenged" girls I've dated because they were so freakin' cool. I couldn't help myself. Sometimes a chick who owns her own gun, baits her own hook, and can cook.... AND owns property....AND a 4x4?

Yeah, Too bad I ruined that one!

Always marry an ugly girl, that's the only kind. She'll never ever leave you, but if she does you won't mind!

Swampman wrote:Always marry an ugly girl, that's the only kind. She'll never ever leave you, but if she does you won't mind!

That should be carved in stone somewhere

All the girls I've known have none of them been what you could call "hot" but they were the nicest most interesting people I've ever known. There's a long story behind one but that's wound I would prefer not open.

I try to be nice to everyone and at least say 'Hi' to people that may not get much attention like janitors, folks at the drive through etc. All women like attention (as long as it's not the stalker variety) and I do try to look into the eyes of the pretty ones.