I suppose I could turn in my NJ DL for a VA DL, but I'm not sure how that affects the other definitions of residency. For example, would I now have to change my vehicle registrations, car insurance company, pay VA taxes, and vote in VA? The proof of residency requirements for a VA license only include documents with a VA address such as a tax or utility bill, but not proof of how much time you spend at that address. Strange.
Probably not worth all the hassle. When my mother passes we'll sell our NJ house and make the permanent move to VA, and then buy all the handguns I want!
Maybe I'll write to BATFE with my situation and see if they agree I am eligible to buy a handgun. Wouldn't it be great if they gave me a "to whom it may concern" letter saying please sell this guy anything he wants! Hmmmm, I doubt it.

TomVA