CowboyT wrote:mamabearCali wrote:Cowboy T, the only time I see race brought up in this forum it is usually brought up by one of the more liberal members of the board. Usually it is used to insinuate racism or outright accuse another person of racism....I don't call people bad names, even those I think wish to destroy the country I love.
Sadly, when I've seen it brought up, it's been by Confederacy-worshipers either insinuating or outright claiming that non-whites are the source of virtually all our problems in this country.
mamabearCali wrote:
This is a large forum, however so it possible that I have missed the posts of which you speak.
Actually, in the thread I presented, you did post in it. Might've been a good time to perhaps mention, "hey folks, if we're going to call ourselves Christians, let's follow the Golden Rule." Just sayin'....
mamabearCali wrote:
The amount of melanin in our presidents skin matters not one whit to me. What mattered to me were his policies which I think will be disastrous not matter if he was lily white or green with purple pokadots. There is truely only one race any way, th human kind.
Then I wish more people on this board shared your attitude. Sadly, the Confederacy-worshipers 'round here do seem to be die-hards.
mamabearCali wrote:
I am just tired of hearing about bottoms and bottom balm, and all the varied connotations that might have. If you get tired of hearing something or find something crass you are free to say so.
And that's why I'd asked moderators here--even Rick himself--to rein people in when they'd go off on their mean-spirited "Michelle Obama = Chewbacca/Chewbiatcha" rants. Wasn't done; indeed, that behaviour got stepped up and encouraged, and I'd hope you'd agree with me that this behaviour should be considered unacceptable. Criticize the policies, yes, but not the person's physical appearance.
And this sort of thing isn't new, sadly. A couple of years ago, Rima Fatih, a beautiful American woman of Lebanese descent (her family moved here to escape persecution when she was younger) won the Miss USA pageant. What was she called on this board? "Miss Shiite Muslim America", and dripping with scorn. Folks posted pictures of previous White winners either insinuating or straight-up claiming that we needed to go back to "real American", i. e. White, women.
Sadly, yes, that mindset does infect this forum. I wish it didn't. You spoke of your observation that the only time race is brought up, it's by Liberals. Unfortunately, the only time I ever hear "secession" brought up, it's by Confederacy-worshipers, Klan sympathizers, members of white-supremacist sites like StormFront, etc. Yes, I will heap scorn upon that "AAAA!! WE NEED TO SECEDE!!!1!!!" mentality, because we've been there already. It's the same mentality that the Romney supporters at Ole Miss recently used to start that riot. Truly shameful. And that's why I laugh with scorn at such stupidity, and I'd hoped that others here would also view that entire ridiculous mindset with equal scorn. Because that's what it deserves--
scorn.
mamabearCali wrote:
What do I think you were gloating over? Well it was apparent to me that you seemed to take delight in our anger at Romneys loss.
Nope. You're hurt right now because your candidate didn't win, so the association's understandable. But actually, I was laughing at the stupidity about that "WE GOTTA SECEEEEDE!!11!!" nonsense in these other states, per the above paragraph. To my knowledge, we're not doing that in Virginia--I hope we're not!--and if we are, then it's equally silly.
mamabearCali wrote:
Good day to you sir.
Good day to you as well, Ma'am.
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"Sadly, when I've seen it brought up, it's been by Confederacy-worshipers either insinuating or outright claiming that non-whites are the source of virtually all our problems in this country."
Ok I grew up a good long time in California, and I was very very liberal for a time. I have seen both sides of the fence. Liberals hate conservatives, Conservatives hate them liberals. What I do know is "Confederacy - worshipers" is a derogatory term. Might as well call them slave loving crackers. What you say, your words mean a lot, I know a lot of my generation, and the coming generation do not understand this. You cannot complain about racism, name calling, and the like, while doing the same yourself and be considered anything but a racist and hypocrite.
I am a half Japanese, quarter Irish, and quarter Cherokee Indian. I am very pale skinned and I have green eyes. I have lived with both sides of the racism card. Japanese people don't consider me Japanese in Japan, cause I look to white, have lighter hair and green eyes. I got teased and called names. On base I was not safe either (you would think otherwise as base has a lot of mixed kids, and this was Alaska), kids would say I could not play cause I was "Yellow" and they did not like to have "Japs" play. My mother full Japanese had to deal with the worst kind of racism, where she was denied jobs, and otherwise harassed attacked. I have been harassed bye the "minority" African American, "majority" white, and "minority" Latin American people, why because I am White/Asian in their eyes in all parts of this country. Does this make me bitter? No, but it does help me to understand first hand that racism is. I have lived it, almost all my life. You know what those people are who are racist IGNORANT.
When you start calling people names like "Confederacy Worshipers" you are calling just that names. Reverse racism is still racism. Just cause it is ok, in society to be mean to white people cause they are not considered minorities does not make it right in any light, in any world. Just because there are less of a certain kinda of people in ethnicity "minorities" does not mean that the "majority" people should be picked on.
You used that phrase multiple times. How is that any different than the "Michelle Obama = Chewbacca/Chewbiatcha" that you are/were complaining about? You are using a term that is derogatory and mean hearted for people you do not agree with, people you do not believe is right, and telling the whole of the forum that their opinions do not matter. You are doing exactly what you dislike. It makes your argument less than effective.
"Sadly, yes, that mindset does infect this forum. I wish it didn't. You spoke of your observation that the only time race is brought up, it's by Liberals. Unfortunately, the only time I ever hear "secession" brought up, it's by Confederacy-worshipers, Klan sympathizers, members of white-supremacist sites like StormFront, etc. Yes, I will heap scorn upon that "AAAA!! WE NEED TO SECEDE!!!1!!!" mentality, because we've been there already. It's the same mentality that the Romney supporters at Ole Miss recently used to start that riot. Truly shameful. And that's why I laugh with scorn at such stupidity, and I'd hoped that others here would also view that entire ridiculous mindset with equal scorn. Because that's what it deserves--
scorn."
Again you speak of a mindset that infects this forum, however, you don't see for yourself what your words do and say. You just equated those very people that you call "confederacy worshipers", Klan sympathizers, and members of white-supremacist sites. Again, you do not agree with the secession wishes but does it do your heart good to call those that want it negative names? I don't see any good coming of it.
I would think we are all adult enough here to know that just because some one signs a petition/s, that they are not all Racists that want all African Americans thrown in chains. I think we are all adult enough here to know that just because some (I am pointing at you Cowboy) have racial/racism views that differ from ours, that not all people who look like you, come from the same background as you, and speak like you believe every white male/female on this forum is a freaking slave loving white supremacist.
I hope and pray that you consider what you are saying. I am so tired of either being picked on because of my race/lack there of in others eyes, or being associated with things I find vile just cause the color of my skin does not match yours. I do not wish evil on others, and I do not blame the whole of society for the IGNORANCE of a few.
You Sir have stirred the Pot, and while I only know MamabearCali online, I have never known her to be mean, evil, spiteful, or racist.
For the record:
What I am tired of is the gloating. Before the election there were tweets and posts about starting riots, and killing white people if Romny won. Now that the opposition won, they don't win gracefully what do they do, they gloat, tell us to put butt cream on our asses, show pictures of people drinking tears of Republicans in victory, and basically flaunting it in our faces. Those mf'rs need to grow the frack up. They would throw a fit/loot/kill if they lost, but now that they have won, and the people not voting for their pick are upset understandably and they tell them to stop bitching cause they lost. Hell I don't see any of your "Confederacy Worshipers" or KKK lovers out there looting and shooting up the town. Think about it.
Another note and personal experience:
You know who I have found are the most understanding/forgiving/loving people are... Southerners, real southerners... they accept who you are, what you are, and move on. Who the hell cares is their mind set. If you ain't bothering me... This is just my experience. You know who seemed to have been the worst racists both ways, Northern Big City people. I have moved around a lot, lived in a lot of places, and have had the luck of dealing with some of the worst and best people in my life.