Actually for us, deadly force can be utilizing a chair and knocking them out. Kinda puts inanimate objects in a different light when you keep that at the back of your head.
But then again, this is just Coast Guard regs. When it comes to VA law in specific (non-maritime) there could be some differences. If it was me in the OP's situation though I would have tried my best to get that OC from her hands for threatening me when there was no cause for confrontation.
My .02 cents for you OP is to make a police report about it and have it on file. That way if it comes up again and she uses it OR you feel threatened and take it away from her you have that to go by (previous threatening gestures for a small misunderstanding). Don't forget your recorder either! That stinks that you didn't have it in the moment.
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